Misunderstandings

I experienced a pretty big misunderstanding yesterday that lead to a pretty dramatic 45 minutes.
Basically all I want to impart on the 2.1 people who read this blog is this:

If you hear something about another person, and they've supposedly done something that really upsets you, call them and ask them if it is true. The worst thing you can do is to act rashly and make assumptions that can destroy a relationship.

All I can say is that I'm so glad I waited and asked and confirmed.